“Few things under heaven are as instructive as the lessons of Silence." -Lao Tzu Do you enjoy spending time by yourself? I do. I absolutely love the spend time doing things on my own. But, when that time seems to drag on due to needed restriction on social movement, it…
There are opportunities we may not have pursued or even recognized in our path that we see as missed opportunities. The fear of missing opportunities (FOMO) can be nerve-wracking or overwhelming, but analyzing and evaluating your missed opportunities to find out if they are worth pursuing is key. Not everything…
We all want to be in control of everything in our life, and having no control over things around us can freak us out. Life does not stop when situations change, and neither should your dream. This is “I can control attitude, and no one can take that for you…
In the Rising Podcast Notes Do you ever ask yourself why some people present so much confidence, and others are clearly timid? Why are some people able to call on courage in an instant, while others struggle? Recapture your self-esteem by understanding more about your confidence. Resources: Article (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/hide-and-seek/201510/self-confidence-versus-self-esteem) by…
The Importance of Balancing EQ and IQ for Self-Love IQ is all about knowing what and who we are. We know we are supposed to be important, love, forgive, and respect ourselves. On the other hand, EQ is all about internalizing all these things and knowing that you have some…
Self-Love vs. Narcissism Are you practising genuine self-love or unknowingly fueling narcissism? Self-love and narcissism are not the same. However, narcissism has so many similarities with self-love deficiency. Self-love deficiency has so many layers, and it usually stems from a person feeling that they have no self-esteem and self-worth outside…
(Step 7 of 7 Self-Love Mini-Series): Living a life with intention In the hustle and bustle of everyday existence, it's easy to feel like life is happening to us rather than being guided by our own choices. We find ourselves drifting along, tossed by the winds of circumstance, unsure of…
Forgiving yourself from guilt and shame: Step 6 of 7 Self-Love Mini Series. Sometimes we feel guilty for something we participated in, enabled, or turned a blind eye to, and forgiving ourselves and getting over it can prove to be difficult. We may go into denial to suppress the guilt,…
(Step 5 of 7 Self-Love Mini-Series) Protect yourself from unhealthy relationships We all instinctively know that protection involves the physical sense of not being harmed, but there is another way just as violent but leaves no mark, which is the realm of emotional and psychological violence. These pretty often don't…
Setting boundaries is a topic that has been discussed extensively, but what do boundaries mean when it comes to self-love? Boundaries are the beginning of one thing and the end of something else so that something else can begin. Although we usually think of boundaries in the format of physical…
As human beings, we have a number of basic needs that must be met in order for us to thrive. These needs include food, water, shelter, and safety. However, our basic needs extend beyond these necessities. We are also designed for relationships, sleep, exercise, and proper nutrition. Neglecting these needs…
(Step 2 of 7 in Mini-Series) Acting on what you need vs. what you want. Self-love is a crucial part of our mental and emotional well-being. It involves accepting yourself for who you are, treating yourself with kindness and compassion, and making sure that your needs are met. In step…
(Step 1 of 7 in Mini-Series) What does self-love look like? We get a lot of information about what interests people, how they think, and what they are struggling with by observation. However, paying attention is critical. It is the first thing anyone in law enforcement and the military learns.…
What does being your true self look like? Have you ever asked yourself who you are, what you are, what your goals are, and what your achievements are? For most of us, our identity is often linked to things outside ourselves. Whether you define yourself with labels such as the…
In the Rising 3 Episode Show Notes 1. Examine what you are holding onto, and whether it is worth it. 2. Realize that your power is in your future, while your lessons are in your past. 3. Identify what about that event is really hurting you. Look inward for answers.…
Why Motivation, Inspiration, and Discipline Matters Motivation, inspiration, and discipline are the building blocks of success. Without these three qualities, it is difficult to stay focused and follow through on your goals, dreams, or relationships. They are the driving force behind success in all aspects of life. But what truly…
Unlock The Secret To Happiness: 7 Ways Self-Love looks like in real life. How often have you heard you have to love yourself more, care about yourself more, and put yourself first? These are phrases of self-care and self-love that we hear everywhere. But what exactly does self-love look like…